In His Own Words
About him
I am a quiet, intelligent man who had been a carer for many years until recently, looking to make friends and have companionship. I love to travel, seeing new places but revisiting old favourites as well. I am a gentle, kind, considerate man who puts a woman first. I love cuddling, curled up in front of a fire listening to music or watching a soppy film.
A published author of sorts. I am a collector of various items and curios. I love gardening in my small but productive garden. I love art and architecture as well as history and archaeology
I love comedy, especially classic British ones and old films. My current favourites are Ghosts, Small Prophets and Detectorists. I also like light hearted crime series like Ludwig
About his ideal match
Intelligent, funny, cultured with a love of music, history, a kind caring considerate person who likes cuddles as well as an enquiring mind, someone who would share some interests but have her own to expand mine.
I want someone to love and to love me.
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Eastleigh (Chandlers Ford), Hampshire, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
68 | |
Star sign: |
Libra | |
Height: |
5' 9" (175cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair colour: |
White | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage; Something casual | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Retired | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Other |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 60 miles of postcode district SO53 (Eastleigh) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
30 - 64 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
4' 7" (140cm) or shorter - 6' 0" (184cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
Any | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally | ||
Education: |
Secondary; Further education; University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
Opportunity |
Party behaviour: |
A wallflower |
Personality traits: |
Cautious; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Mild; Optimistic; Philosophical; Quiet; Realistic; Sensible; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite colour: |
Yellow |
Hair style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I wear bifocals |
Facial hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body hair: |
Light |
Disabilities: |
I have a chronic illness |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Folk; Heavy Metal; Instrumental; Opera; Rock; Scottish |
Reading: |
I read books occasionally; I read magazines occasionally |
Books: |
Crime; History; Non-fiction; Science / Technology |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Educational; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Nature/Wildlife; Sci-Fi; Sport |
Movie frequency: |
I wait for movies to come out on DVD or online. |
Movie preferences: |
Adult; Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Drama; Romance; Sci-Fi; War |
Interests: |
Collecting stamps, coins, etc.; Cooking; Gardening; Music; Photography; Reading; The arts; Writing books |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Athletics; Birdwatching; Cricket; Football (Soccer); Hiking; Rugby; Walking |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Fine Dining; Gastro Pub; Greek; Italian; Pub Grub; Seafood |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Diabetic |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at work: |
I'm retired |
Pastimes of choice: |
Visiting a museum or gallery |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Dog(s); Fish |
Pets (Dislike): |
Cat(s); Exotic pet(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair |
Turn-offs: |
Thrill seeking |
Religious attendance: |
Doesn't apply |
Dream home: |
Eco home in the countryside |
Politics: |
Liberal |
Retirement plans: |
Living in the country |
Feelings about using Over 40 Dating: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |



