In Her Own Words
About her
Attracted to a practical, witty, adventurous and warm-hearted man, who will respect and appreciate all of me as a capable, feminine, adult woman.
I am emotionally intelligent, inquisitive, and empathetic. Ridiculously loyal, with a strong sense of integrity. Down to earth, witty, young-at-heart, with an endless sense of wonder and comfortable in my own skin.
Slim, healthy and active. I live in the countryside and enjoy a relatively calm and peaceful life; I have no desire for drama or ostentatious extravagance, definitely more of the creative, bohemian ilk.
I am self-employed, working part-time. Seeking someone young-at-heart, with the time and vitality to enjoy ourselves and each other, to relish in some of life’s simple pleasures with the occasional wild(ish!) adventure.
Never going to be Stepford Wife material. Happily unable to relate to the sisterhood of sparkly, bubbly, botoxed, gentlemen pleasing damsels – if that’s your cup of tea, then honestly, we’re not for each other.
My adult daughter is happily settled in her own life.
INFJ (should you value Meyers-Briggs).
About her ideal match
Someone intrigued by the idea of us slowly building a genuine, loving, fulfilling relationship, whilst appreciating my independent streak and need for occasional solitude. Someone who can naturally sense and respect the vulnerabilities that lie within us all, is emotionally available and hasn’t mislaid their moral compass somewhere along the way.
A fit and active blokey-gentleman who will hopefully share some of my loves: the sea and wild landscapes; architecture and the arts; dogs, bookshops, antique fairs and gardening; live music, country pubs, road-trips, people watching and exercise, with the occasional evening of good-hearted debauchery thrown in for good measure.
Have a twinkle in your eye (ideally both) and delight in the thought of laughing until our cheek bones ache. Appreciate the pleasures of an occasional lie-in; the intimacy of late night nattering; understand the value of companionable silence and relish the idea of being quietly adored – that would be a pretty fine start…. Oh, and if you ride motorbikes I make a ridiculously happy pillion.
A few notes:
Please be honest about your relationship status, let’s not waste each other’s time.
Please be honest about your age. I don’t want to be left wondering whether you’ve sent your father along to meet me.
Please have a photo or two – this means of introduction is clunky enough without hiding from view.
Guessing that little lot may have narrowed the field somewhat(!); however, if any of my above musings resonate with you, it would be intriguing to hear from you.
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Great Shefford (West Berkshire), Berkshire, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
58 | |
Star sign: |
Aquarius | |
Height: |
5' 4" (163cm) | |
Body type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Dark Blonde | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 60 miles of postcode district RG20 (Newbury) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
46 - 68 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 10" (177cm) - 6' 4" (194cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality traits: |
Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Quiet; Realistic; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Sexiness |
Fashion sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Hair style: |
It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Date activities: |
A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Motoring; Movie Channels; Nature/Wildlife |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Meditation; Music; Pottery; Reading; Sculpting; The arts |
Sport involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Backgammon; Camping; Hiking; Motorsport; Running; Skiing; Stand Up Paddleboarding; Swimming; Tennis; Walking; Weight training; Yoga |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at work: |
I work part-time |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Intelligence; Showing affection in public |
Turn-offs: |
Long hair; Power; Sarcasm |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Never |
Dream home: |
In the country |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Feelings about using Over 40 Dating: |
Hopeful; Jaded |
Honesty: |
Extremely |