In His Own Words
About him
Hello there,
If you’ve made it this far into my profile, then clearly something about me made you pause mid‑scroll. Or, if I’ve messaged you first, it means I’m already attracted to you. See? Straight to the point. No cryptic riddles, no “guess my intentions” nonsense.
Now, I could give you the usual polished list of virtues everyone trots out — world traveller, adrenaline junkie, spiritual guru, part‑time astronaut — but let’s be honest, that’s all a bit predictable.
So instead, here’s the real deal:
I won’t claim I’ve travelled the entire globe… although I’ve definitely wandered far enough to get lost a few times. I don’t jump out of perfectly good airplanes, I don’t own a snowboard, but I’m a world class rear gunner in a snowball fight, and I’ve even played ice hockey without breaking anything important. And yes, I fully intend to be a breath of fresh air — the good kind, not the “left the window open in February” kind.
I like to escape to the Scottish West Highlands/Inner/Outer Hebrides for Rest and Recreation (R&R). If you can join, fantastic. If not, I’m flexible — but you’ll have to tolerate me bragging about the scenery.
So now it’s over to you.
If you decide to get in touch, brace yourself. You’re signing up for something unique, entertaining, and occasionally ridiculous — in the best possible way.
About his ideal match
Here’s the rough sketch of the kind of person I imagine you might be:
Someone smart, switched‑on and wonderfully independent, with a relaxed vibe but a serious streak when life calls for it. You probably love a long walk and have a pair of trusty walking boots to prove it — yet you can just as easily slip into heels, turn heads, and glide into an evening looking effortlessly sharp. I wouldn’t be surprised if there’s a classic little black dress hanging in your wardrobe, ready for spontaneous plans.
You’re the sort who enjoys the arts, live gigs, comedy nights, and will happily give most things a go at least once. Ideally, you’ve lived a life with a few stories, the good, the wild, the questionable, and you’re now in that sweet spot where you’re ready to leave the messy chapters behind. You’re comfortable in your own skin, confident in what you do, and carry yourself with the kind of ease that only comes from knowing who you are.
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Greenwich, London, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
57 | |
Star sign: |
Virgo | |
Height: |
5' 11" (180cm) | |
Body type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Shaved | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage; Something casual | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Vegetarian | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Ask me later | |
Income: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
Ask me later | |
Home language: |
Ask me later | |
Other languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Ask me later |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
England; Scotland, United Kingdom | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
45 - 58 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 5" (164cm) - 5' 10" (179cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; It's Complicated | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally; Several times a week; Most days | ||
Education: |
University / College student; Further education; University; Postgraduate; Private school | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Rocket Scientist |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality traits: |
Ambitious; Thoughtful |
Valued qualities: |
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite colour: |
Purple |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses and contacts |
Facial hair: |
I have cool side burns |
Body hair: |
Shaved |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Electronic Dance Music; Gospel / Religious; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin; New Age; Opera; R&B / Soul; Reggae; Rock; Scottish; World |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read books occasionally; I read newspapers occasionally |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; History; Travel |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Educational; Motoring; Movie Channels; Nature/Wildlife; Sci-Fi; Sport; Variety shows |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Art Films; Black & White / Silent; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi; War |
Interests: |
Acting; Board games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Music; The arts; Voluntary work |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Archery; Athletics; Cycling; Fencing; Field Hockey; Flying / Gliding; Football (Soccer); Hiking; Horse Riding; Ice Hockey; Ice Skating; Motorsport; Mountain biking; Orienteering; Rugby; Sailing; Skiing; Snowboarding; Tennis; Walking; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Doesn't matter; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; German; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Gluten-free; Carb-free; Other |
Pace of Life: |
Chilled |
Time at work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public |
Turn-offs: |
Power; Sarcasm; Thrill seeking |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream home: |
In the country |
Feelings about using Over 40 Dating: |
Curious |
Honesty: |
Quite |







