In Her Own Words
About her
This USA girl in UK plays bridge for the mind, does fitness classes for the body, and likes to travel for the soul. A sapiophile, intelligence is a turn on. Originally from NJ, I moved to the UK from Boston, MA 40 years ago. I enjoy art, theatre, museums, National Trust and English Heritage, walking, most things really but not football. I am very involved in the local bridge club, and although I only play once a week I organise events for them and do their publicity and promotion. I love to travel, especially France (I speak fluent French having lived there many years ago), but would like to see more of Spain and Italy. Would you care to explore the Alsace Wine Route or Pompeii with me? Good food and even a better bottle of wine are important, and I’m a fairly decent cook. I am highly educated, well read and widely travelled, but there is so much more to do and see in this world. Will you join me for the next chapter of my life?
About her ideal match
He should be kind, intelligent, and honest, with a good sense of humour. He should be solvent enough to pay his own way. He should crave affection and intimacy without being clingy. He should feel comfortable in his own skin and in any situation. He should have a life of his own and not want a 24/7 live in relationship. I would like someone with whom to spend weekends together, enjoying a home cooked meal and bottle of good wine, and to travel with, abroad and in the UK. Please leave your political views at the door. I am not in the least interested in what you think or have to say.
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About her
Country of origin: |
United States | |
Location: |
Banbury (Kings Sutton), Oxfordshire, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
77 | |
Star sign: |
Libra | |
Height: |
5' 3" (160cm) | |
Body type: |
Curvaceous | |
Looks: |
Very Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Blonde | |
Eye colour: |
Hazel | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Most days | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Retired | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French; Spanish | |
Religion: |
Jewish |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 40 miles of postcode district OX17 (Banbury) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
64 - 80 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 9" (174cm) - 6' 11" (210cm) or taller | ||
Body type: |
Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally; Several times a week; Most days | ||
Education: |
University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Other; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality traits: |
Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Realistic; Sensible; Stable; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humour; Kindness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Smart (It's all about quality) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Hair style: |
Medium; Straight; Well-behaved |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Country & Western; Folk; Opera; Rock |
Reading: |
I read newspapers regularly; I read books occasionally |
Books: |
Crime; Mystery |
TV habits: |
I watch television every day |
TV programmes: |
Dramas |
Movie frequency: |
Never |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Drama; Mystery; Romance; Westerns |
Interests: |
Business news; Card games; Cooking; Investing; Shopping; Voluntary work |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
American Football; Athletics; Baseball; Basketball; Birdwatching; Dance; Darts; Golf; Gymnastics; Horse Riding; Ice Skating; Sailing; Snooker; Stand Up Paddleboarding; Swimming; Table Tennis; Tennis; Walking; Weight training; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Fast food; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; German; Greek; Italian; Pub Grub; Seafood; Sushi |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Hectic |
Time at work: |
I don't work |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Family size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
Not at all |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Erotica; Long hair; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking |
Religious attendance: |
Doesn't apply |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement plans: |
Enjoying the comforts of home |
Feelings about using Over 40 Dating: |
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Very |









