In His Own Words
About him
I’m warm, wise and witty - and a youthful bundle of fun. I like the finer things in life and appreciate life’s simple pleasures. I’m more than a lover and more than a friend. I enjoy lively, intelligent conversation with a spirited lady over a glass of wine… so is it red, white or sparkling?
I believe in romantic thoughts, words and deeds. I think grand gestures can be trumped by small acts of kindness. Friendship, fun and fidelity… are my watch words.
In the cosy familiarity of home and hearth, it’s Radio 4, creating divine dishes in the kitchen, reading a gripping book on the sofa, good gardening, dog / cat whispering and lazy, hazy duvet days. Long, luxurious Epsom salts soaks in the bath. In the great outdoors… walking across Hampstead Heath, fields and forests. I’m also instinctively drawn to water… so love canals, meandering rivers, tranquil lakes, rugged coastlines, sandy beaches and being in the sea.
Nights out at the theatre, plays / musicals, mangling European languages in swish restaurants, atmospheric wine bars, dancing to live music at small gigs / summer festivals and belly laughs at comedy clubs. I always have Chanel Bleu aftershave to hand… after all, I know that women can be seduced by a fragrant masculine neck.
I have a passion for long haul travel for sunshine, history, culture, cuisine … in Asia, Africa, Central and South America.
About his ideal match
I’m seeking a bright, witty and wise woman with a real zest for life. I like a confident lady - who is charming, kind and considerate - who wishes to share her life, loves and passions. Comfortable in your own skin and in the company of others - in public and private - you’ll be self-assured and self-aware. Selfless…
As well as having joie de vivre, you’ll have strength and depth of character. I like a lady with polish, poise and composure. You’ll be big hearted, kind and have the emotional intelligence to enjoy cosy conversation, sharing intimacies and family experiences. I like a lady with a desire for romantic adventures in far flung corners of the earth - as well as fun-filled long weekend breaks to European cities.
So gregarious girl… can we enjoy living in the moment… if so, think… joyous music, dance, drink and love… pure pleasure.
P.S. I promise to scatter petals on the ground before your feet… if you’re the one!
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
City of London, London, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
55 | |
Star sign: |
Pisces | |
Height: |
5' 11" (180cm) | |
Body type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Black | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Several times a week | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Financial services | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
Other | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 100 miles of postcode district N1 (London) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
45 - 61 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 1" (154cm) - 6' 1" (186cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Above Average | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
University; Private school | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Generous; Happy; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Humour; Kindness |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |