In His Own Words
About him
Hi. I don’t know where to start but here goes. I’m an optimist and I think wonderful shocks and surprises are as likely to occur as unpleasant ones. Why not 2025 for experiencing some good ones?
Though I’m between jobs at present, I’m financially stable and am currently taking advantage of this to write up a history doctorate as a mature student. My main career has been in policing, working as a crime analyst and intelligence officer.
I like playing sport and following professional sport (especially football and cricket). I also like country/coastal walks, ending in country/coastal pubs. I adore living in North Yorkshire, though I love my London roots and am also mad about Dorset (around half my relations live there, so I’ve been a frequent visitor). I love cooking Armenian cuisine, after learning a number of dishes from my Armenian mother. I like all food except cheese, and am still haunted by memories of a station sandwich shop that offered me a choice of brie & grape, ham & emmenthal, cheeseburger, three cheese crepe, salmon with cream cheese, or halloumi wrap. (I made do with a packet of scampi-flavoured fries.)
Other passions include listening to music (from Buddy Holly to Ralph Vaughan Williams, Gary Numan to Jessie Ware, Kate Bush to Harry Styles) and reading novels (Jane Austen, Thomas Hardy, Agatha Christie). I also write poetry and songs, partly for pleasure and catharsis, partly for (thus-far-elusive) profit.
I'm fascinated by religion and politics, but I’m passionate about respecting those who disagree with my views. In an era of animosity and ‘cancelling’, I’m proud that most of my friends disagree with me in one or both areas. We believe that each other has good intentions and wants a better world, so differing on means to that end is not going to wreck a good friendship! Nor should it prevent a good relationship... So I don’t care if you’re Brexiteer or Remainer, believer or doubter, pro- or anti-‘vaxxer’: I only care if you have a warm heart, an open mind and a zest for life.
About his ideal match
I don't have too many set ideas about appearance, interests, etc. I think that making a 'connection' is the key. I do want to meet someone who is as tolerant of those who disagree with them on big issues as I hope I am. I would say again that I really want a woman with a warm heart, an open mind and a zest for life, and, to some extent, everything else is secondary.
That said, it might also help if you’re partial to a cheese-phobe who sings to his cat and dreams of Armenia winning the Eurovision Song Contest. If you are, please let me know, and you’ll soon find that beneath the veneer of an eccentric lurks a kind and caring man who’s very fond of fun and longs to love again with a whole heart.
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Malton, Yorkshire - North, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
57 | |
Star sign: |
Gemini | |
Height: |
6' 4" (193cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair colour: |
Greying | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Separated | |
Looking for: |
Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
Maybe | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Ask me later | |
Income: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
Mixed | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French; German; Other | |
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 100 miles of postcode district YO17 (Malton) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
30 - 65 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 0" (152cm) - 5' 8" (173cm) | ||
Body type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
Any | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Vegan | ||
Smoking: |
Never; Occasionally; Trying to Quit; E-cigarette User | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Latino/Hispanic; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian; Other; Mixed | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Easygoing; Faithful; Generous; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Philosophical; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Hair style: |
Disappearing |
Facial hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body hair: |
Average |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A music concert; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Dance / Disco; Gospel / Religious; Pop / Top 40; Punk; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read magazines regularly; I read newspapers occasionally |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Fiction; History; Non-fiction; Religious |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Music Channels; News; Sport |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Black & White / Silent; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Romance |
Interests: |
Acting; Board games; Card games; Healthy living; Meditation; Music; Politics; Reading; Singing; Writing poetry |
Sport involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Bowling; Cricket; Darts; Football (Soccer); Pool; Snooker; Table Tennis; Walking |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; French; Gastro Pub; Greek; Indian; Italian; Pub Grub; Seafood |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Pastimes of choice: |
Reading a book |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Family size: |
I've got a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm in the middle of a divorce |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Dog(s); Rodent(s); Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Power; Sarcasm |
Religious attendance: |
Once a week |
Retirement plans: |
Doing voluntary work |
Feelings about using Over 40 Dating: |
Hopeful; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Very |