In His Own Words
About him
I’m interested in getting to know you. I need to challenged and stretched. My friends think I’m outgoing and confident but really I am quite shy. I enjoying trying new things but will not bungee jump. I really enjoy Art and music. I’m getting into jazz. I am not well informed about either and enjoy finding out. I seem to travel a lot. This year I visited a Pre Raphaelite exhibition near Bologna, hiked in Lazio, spent a few days in Venice at the bienniale. I had a motorbike adventure in Lao then a road trip in Western Australia. I enjoy exploring new areas in the UK just as much. I do Pilates and Yoga badly but refuse to give up. I’m lefty and have green views and am upset by the lack of action on the climate emergency. Yes I can spot the contradictions. I want to do a bit making the world a better place.
About his ideal match
I am a sapiosexual and any relationship starts with friendship and kindness. I like my mind to be stretched kindly. I assume that we would spend time together in art and cultural activities. I enjoy wine and intriguing food. I detest smoking.
What His Friends Say
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
67 | |
Star sign: |
Leo | |
Height: |
6' 4" (193cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair colour: |
Balding | |
Eye colour: |
Ask me later | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage; Something casual | |
Have children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Retired | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
Ask me later | |
Other languages: |
Arabic; French; Italian | |
Religion: |
Atheist |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
France; Italy; United Kingdom | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
49 - 67 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 3" (159cm) - 6' 5" (196cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Further education; University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Irreverent |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Cautious; Daring; Faithful; Generous; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Outspoken; Philosophical; Realistic; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Charity; Compassion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Kindness; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Hair style: |
Disappearing |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Facial hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body hair: |
Hairy |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Classical; Electronic Dance Music; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin; New Age; Punk; R&B / Soul; Reggae; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I read books regularly |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Crime; Fiction; History; Non-fiction; Science / Technology; Travel |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Nature/Wildlife; News |
Movie frequency: |
Several times a week |
Movie preferences: |
Art Films; Black & White / Silent; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Romance |
Interests: |
Cooking; Healthy living; Meditation; Music; Photography; Politics; Reading; The arts |
Sport involvement: |
Bored to death |
Sports: |
Cycling; Running; Scuba diving; Swimming |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Doesn't matter; Fast food; Fine Dining; French; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at work: |
I don't work |
Pastimes of choice: |
Visiting a museum or gallery |
Take drugs: |
Not any more |
Family size: |
I don't have any family |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Other |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Thrill seeking |
Work aspirations: |
Fire the boss |
Religious attendance: |
Doesn't apply |
Dream home: |
On a beach |
Politics: |
Socialist |
Retirement plans: |
Backpacking around the globe |
Feelings about using Over 40 Dating: |
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
