In Her Own Words
About her
Originally from Sweden with Greek roots, I've lived in several countries before settling in the U.K. in 2015. My friends describe me as genuine, empathetic, kind and funny. Outside of work, I’m passionate about horses and have a lifelong love for dressage.
I thrive on exploring, whether it’s travelling to new destinations, immersing myself in different cultures, or simply indulging in the arts. Museums, galleries, and cultural experiences are close to my heart, as I find beauty in both history, architecture and contemporary creativity.
I find energy and peace in nature and staying active is essential to me, whether it’s through hiking, running, or spending time outdoors. I also enjoy good food, wine, and engaging conversations over a perfectly brewed cup of coffee or tea.
I balance my time between peaceful nights in watching a good film or series and enriching cultural experiences, whether in the city or the countryside. Life, for me, is about cultivating passions, embracing growth, and appreciating both simplicity and sophistication.
About her ideal match
I'm drawn to someone who values intellectual depth and genuine connection, with a passion for their interests and a strong sense of purpose. Confidence and ambition are attractive when paired with humility and kindness.
I appreciate a partner who enjoys meaningful conversations, new experiences, and finds beauty in both nature and the arts. Someone who can appreciate the finer things - good food, wine, and culture - but is also comfortable kicking back or getting their hands dirty, just like me.
Most importantly, I value someone who balances closeness with independence, sharing life's adventures with authenticity, humour, and style.
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About her
Country of origin: |
Sweden | |
Location: |
Newbury, Berkshire, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
39 | |
Star sign: |
Cancer | |
Height: |
5' 5" (165cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Ask me later | |
Hair colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
Maybe | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
Swedish | |
Other languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Atheist |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 60 miles of postcode district RG20 (Newbury) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
34 - 44 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 10" (177cm) - 6' 11" (210cm) or taller | ||
Body type: |
Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want children: |
Yes; Maybe | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
University / College student; University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Spiritual, but not religious |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Sophisticated |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Ambitious; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outspoken; Realistic; Sensible; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness |
Fashion sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Hair style: |
Medium; Long; Well-behaved |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Classical; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Jazz; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Reggae; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I read magazines regularly; I read books occasionally; I read newspapers occasionally |
Books: |
Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; Mystery |
TV habits: |
I watch television every day |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Dramas; Game shows; Movie Channels; Nature/Wildlife; Sci-Fi |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Horror; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Computer & video games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Music; Painting; Reading |
Sports: |
Hiking; Horse Riding; Running; Walking |
Cooking: |
I have to cook |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Time online: |
Less than once a week |
Family size: |
I've got sisters |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Dog(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Reptile(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Long hair; Power; Sarcasm; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Never |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement plans: |
Seeing the world in style |
Feelings about using Over 40 Dating: |
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
