In Her Own Words
About her
I’ve created a stable, beautiful home in the Cornish countryside, where I’m a steady presence for my two teenagers. Widowed for some time, I’m balancing work (for a few more years) with the things I love—friends, sea swims, horse riding, making farmhouse preserves, hiking, and diving into history books or podcasts like *The Rest is History* or *Poetry Unbound*. Anyone else enjoyed *Crazy Horse, Sitting Bull, Custer* series?
Once a week, I join a local choir, which brings community & music to my evenings. And seeing Taylor Swift this year was definitely a highlight!
I love to travel: the Luberon, Chile, and the ‘Stans are near the top of my list!
About her ideal match
Looking ahead, I want to balance the joys of home life with more travel across Europe’s grand capitals and charming, sunny towns. Sabbaticals appeal—after this summer in Uzès, I’m looking forward to longer stays in beautiful places.
Whether it’s sharing a glass of red at home with good chat & music, a sunset picnic or a film festival, I’m ready for new adventures with someone quietly confident, intelligent, and kind—someone who enjoys everyday humour and is happy to muck in with life’s practicalities.
If you can whisk me away for dinner, plan a beach trip, or chat over cocktails and an art house film, we might be a match. *Some Like It Hot* is a favourite, along with *Before Sunrise* and *The Spy Who Came in from the Cold*.
👇Send me a message and tell me what you're currently reading or watching—I’m reading *Bury my Heart at Wounded Knee* by Dee Brown and would love to swap recommendations!
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Bodmin, Cornwall, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
51 | |
Star sign: |
Cancer | |
Height: |
5' 10" (178cm) | |
Body type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Very Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Light Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Grey | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Agriculture | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Cornwall (England, United Kingdom) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
43 - 61 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 7" (169cm) - 6' 11" (210cm) or taller | ||
Body type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
Any | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
University / College student; Further education; University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Faithful; Funny; Intelligent; Thoughtful |
Valued qualities: |
Compassion; Faithfulness; Humour; Kindness; Patience |
Hair style: |
Medium; Long |
Eyesight: |
I wear contacts |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers occasionally |
Books: |
Fiction; History; Travel |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Art Films; Black & White / Silent; Comedy; Independent |
Interests: |
Board games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Investing; Meditation; Music; Painting; Politics; Reading; Singing; The arts |
Sport involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Horse Riding; Running; Swimming |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Family size: |
I've got a brother |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Religious attendance: |
Rarely |
Feelings about using Over 40 Dating: |
Hopeful |
Honesty: |
Extremely |